People Talking Behind My Back Are Actually My Wellwishers!

Imagine a situation when your confidant tells you that people around you are still talking about the red top you donned the other day. Though initially you might feel that they were praising your outfit, however you discover soon that they were discussing about how the colour looked too bright on your skin tone, and that you couldn't pull it off at all!

Gradually you see that your confidant experiences more stress, rather than you, while dealing with the so called fashion police…

Now, in a situation like this you could either bog yourself down and overthink to the zenith, or probably even decide not to wear the same red top again. Frankly speaking, this might make you feel miserable, because the top was very dear to you.

But come on let's be honest, do you even think that you would be able to combat these situations? Surely, that would take a lot of self confidence, wouldn't it? To be very honest do you actually possess what it takes to nip these folks in the bud?

What? Wait wait wait! 

Did you say YES by any chance?

Really, you are not afraid of what people think about you? Woah, that's truly awesome! Believe me, this was what I was just about to say! Why worry about others opinions, when you truly know where your potential lies? Also isn't it great and fascinating when in this busy world, people actually have the time to talk about you?

Honestly, if something similar would have happened to me, I would be jovial and ecstatic around it. I mean seriously, it's not everyday when you get so lucky like this, when people talk about you, rather show interest in your life! To top that, even those who talk behind your back and in your absence are actually doing a great favour to you. They are making you famous and also publicising you. So, tell me honestly when was the last time anyone actually favoured you this much? And, if these people aren't your well wishers, then who is?